Becoming a Peacemaker

1. We can make a commitment to find peace within ourselves. There is a saying, “Think globally, but act locally.” The most local place to act is within ourselves. If we are at peace within ourselves, we have a tremendous power to help others. The sufi teacher Pir Vilayat Khan taught us the Islamic wazifa, “Allaho Akbar.” It’s essential meaning is that true inner peace brings the greatest power. Martial artists know the power that comes from inner peace.

If we forget inner peace and commit only to peace outside of ourselves, we lose our power. The person who ignores his or her own inner peace in order to bring peace to others has no power, and does little real good.

Similarly, Ram Dass often spoke about the angry demonstrators shouting out for peace, who were really only spreading anger, their predominant feeling. Gandhi, on the other hand, marched with true inner peace, and had tremendous power to change lives. His words say it all: “There is no way to peace. Peace is the way.”

Inner peace is not dependent on outer circumstances. We’ve met people who were going through very difficult challenges in their lives, but have maintained a commitment to inner peace.

Inner peace is attainable for anyone who sincerely wants it. It’s our birthright, our true and natural state of being. If we give ourselves enough time (and there is always enough time if we want it), we can breathe peace into our body, or pray or meditate in a million different ways.

2. Make a commitment to see beauty and light in other people. Everyone needs to know that there is at least one person on this planet that believes in them, that can see their beauty. We could be that person for others. Take the risk to express appreciation often to others, especially those closest to us. We can change someone’s life just by pointing out their goodness.

3. Apologize first. We don’t apologize first when there has been a conflict with someone because we fear we will look weak or entirely at fault. However, when we apologize first we hold the power, because we are reaching out to be peacemakers. We can apologize powerfully by saying something like, “I am sorry for hurting your feelings. I never meant to hurt you.” If this is said with an open heart, then it is usually effective and will open the door for an honest discussion, one in which we can each learn our responsibility in the conflict.

4. Do not be afraid to offer help when two people are in conflict. If they ask for your help, the most important thing you can do is to just sit and listen deeply to each side. Know that there is no right or wrong person. Try to hear what each person is really wanting and reflect that back. See the beauty and intention in each person. If you take sides with one of the people, you will not be able to help either one. If the talk is not going well and the people are still polarized, then urge them to get professional counseling and work toward a resolution as quickly as possible. It is a wonderful feeling to be a peacemaker for two people and see them begin to understand each other again.

5. Be in balance with how much media news you absorb. A man came to us recently for counseling. He was compulsively listening to and watching all the news about the war, as well as checking several websites daily. Though his career did not need this information, he was becoming an authority on the war, but it was coming at a big price. His health was failing, he was having trouble sleeping and he was losing friends because all he wanted to talk about was the war. This man was out of balance. We told him to greatly limit the amount of time he spends absorbing the media. A better use of his time would be to develop peace within himself. If we let news of terrorist activities rob us of our peace, then the terrorists are winning within us. It is important to be informed and take action outwardly, but just as important to develop inner peace and quiet within ourselves.

6. Take compassionate action. Find ways to help relieve suffering in the world. Reaching out and volunteering to help others is a powerful way to spread peace.

There is so much that we as individuals, couples or families can do to keep the vision of peace alive. “Blessed are the Peacemakers.” May we strive daily to be a peacemaker and bring light to our world.

“When there’s light in the soul
there is beauty in the person.
When there’s beauty in the person
there is harmony within the home.
When there’s harmony within the home
there’s order in the nation.
When there’s order in the nation
there is peace in the world.”

-- Written by Joe Marshalle. Recorded by Scott Kalechstein on “Midwives of the Light” (scottsongs.com)

Women... love... peace...

Har akkurat avsluttet en bok som heter «Kvinnesjelens Kraft» Den er skrevet av en mann (Hernàn Huarache Mamani) og jeg har fått den anbefalt av en mann, så det er ikke en typisk «jentebok» ;o)

Det er en sann historie skrevet i roman-form med mange herlige insikter.
Historien foregår i Peru og beskriver hvordan kvinnene hadde en viktig rolle i Inca-samfunnet, med egne skoler. Og hvordan en kvinne går gjennom en innvielse til å bli en «slangekvinne».

Essensen er vel at det er for lite kjærlighet i verden og at det er på tide å gjøre noe med det :o).
Mamani har ei hjemmeside hvor han brenner for det http://www.mamani-inca.com

«The “DE LA VIDA Y DE LA PAZ” school was built in Pachacutec village, in the outskirts of Arequipa, in Peru’. This school is the first Mamani’s Foundation’s piece of work as a tangible result, that follows the love’s educational principles for life and peace. This educational center represents the first step towards the realization of a wider project which is the one to build the UNIVESITY OF LIFE AND PEACE, an educational institution built in addition to the actual one, and it will be able to integrate science and technology with spirituality. “In ancient times, in Peru’, there was some kind of females’ university, the AKLLAWASI. The Western university has a male’s imprint and is based on a outer world’s vision that neglects the inner world therefore the spirit.

The fundamental objective of the project is to recover and exploit the Akllawasi’s model, the educational path of a [b]female culture[/b] that seven centuries ago brought into life a social organization, able to promote welfare, peace and respect for all creatures on Earth.

The pedagogy’s fundamental characteristic that we use is the one to regain the wisdom of the Andean educational projects and to use modern pedagogic methods, for instance the Waldorf’s one, used in various schools. The pursuit for truthfulness, love, respect and freedom, is linked to the attention given to the complete development of the child while looking carefully at his physical, animist and spiritual qualities and also at his ability to form a creative thought.

Hernan Huarache Mamani, a Quequa’s Indian, man of medicine of the Andeans’ traditions, university professor in Arequipa, in Peru’ and also divulger of wisdom of his population thought seminars and conferences.. He has published in Italy “In the Shaman’ eyes” and “ The carandera’s prophecy “ edited by Piemme and also in September 2005 he published “The woman with a silver tail” edited by Mondadori. The copyrights of his books have totally been donated in order to buy the fist plots of land where the “the School of Life and Peace” project is been carried out. The school is in Arequipa in Peru’. In September 2001, professor Mamani established The Mamani’s Foundation. The Mamani’s Inca Association, in Italy, supports and promotes his project.»

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Er med i et nettsamfunn hvor jeg fanger mye inspirasjon. Er spesielt glad i de gangene jeg kommer over noen filmsnutter, siden jeg ikke er så glad i å lese i mengder ;o)
Da er det også lettere å dele med andre, synes jeg :o)



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